Like the ever-present pulse beating beneath the surface of your skin, there is another kind of hidden rhythm quietly alive within you.
“Ugh,” you might be thinking, “What the hell are you talking about!”
Fair enough. I'll try to explain to you.
For readers old enough to remember manual transmission cars, with a clutch and stick shift on the floor, the engine was designed to move through four gears. Each one built on the last, transferring ever-increasing power from the engine to the wheels with increasing efficiency and speed.
But imagine a new driver never learns about 4th gear!
They’d be stuck between the torque-heavy low gears (1st and 2nd) and the high-speed cruising gear (4th), shifting back and forth without ever completing the proper sequence. They’d hear the constant strain and vibration of the engine. They might sense that something’s off, but unaware that fourth gear exists, they’d keep pressing on, never realizing or experiencing that there’s a smoother way to travel.
When you shift into 4th gear at the right moment, the engine is no longer climbing or struggling, but now moving more efficiently, more quietly, and with a natural rhythm.
The quiet within I’m referring to may be the missing “gear” you’ve sensed all your life, like the driver pressing along in third gear, faintly aware there should be another shift to smooth out the ride, with no idea how to access it.
When you allow this 4th gear to integrate into your life, there’s now a way of being in the world without force, urgency, or reaction. You listen differently. You hear differently. There’s no rushing about. Even when you move fast, something in you stays unhurried. You no longer live in performance, but presence.
How much money, or years of your life, would you be willing to give to operate from this quiet within…?



My husband taught me how to drive a stick shift. Like a lot of things I'm glad I learned the basics: math w/o a calculator, sewing w/o a machine, and who could ever forget a rotary phone? lol I have a hard time getting my motor to stop revving? Do others feel like that?